Bed time stories

This is very personal. Society usually oversexualizes same sex couples, people tend to think, speak, write, that the main topic there is sex.

But there is something much more intimate, much more human than just making love. Being with someone in bed, hugging, kissing, touching, feeling with someone natural, sleeping. There is nothing that makes two people that close as cuddling in the bed.

When you’re vulnerable, without make up, without fancy clothes, sometimes snoring, when you feel the real smell of each others skin.

These are private micro- worlds, safe bubbles that are reserved for two.

Where is the difference between heterosexual and homosexual couples? The visibility. Gay couples usually are not allowed to create this kind of intimacy in other places than their bedroom, behind closed courtains.

It pisses me of when I hear “it’s nobody’s business what you’re doing in your bedroom”. It is my business when you’re not allowing me to be close with the person I love in any other places.
We’re not talking about intercourse, about having sex in public. I’m telling about two bodies just being close, what is so natural when you love (or are attracted to) somebody.

My illustrations tell this story about intimate moments that are not necessary a moment of having sex. In apartament, in the bedroom, in bed.

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Kiss project

So one day I thought about all the stereotypes that come with the same sex couples. 
The truth is you see lesbians mostly in pornographic materials or as some kind of caricature of a woman (same way you imagine a feminist).
On one side we have complete sexualisation and vulgarisation of the subject, on the other.. well you know what I mean.

If you want’t to see some tasteful lesbian (or wider- homosexual) erotic pictures, drawings and so on, you really have to google it hard. On your way some nasty stuff can really rape your eyes.

So I wanted to show something different- INTIMACY. How you are with the other person when you’re close, you’re couple or a romance. 

A kiss is something between spiritual world and sexual side of relationship.
So here it is. A kiss. So natural for heterosexual couple, so forbidden when it comes to public affection of homosexual women together.

Drawing these illustrations was a continuation of some other project, which I’ll show you later. 

 


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